Firstly, to everyone else on here who has "opened up," I want to let you know you make me feel welcome and "safe" to discuss my own issues here. I admire your transparency as "tightly-knit" members of this community. With that said, I am actually on the autism spectrum myself - specifically, Asperger's.
I was diagnosed at an EXTREMELY young age - I believe only 4. It was initially discovered in my preschool years, when the "teachers" (I'd be hardpressed to call them that by higher education standards!) realized that I had a tendency to "keep to myself" much of the time, and not interact with/"seek out" opportunities to engage/play with others. Subsequent psychological analysis indeed confirmed I had Asperger's (as some of these early, "classic symptoms" would suggest). And one time, at like age 3 or 4, I was wrongfully put in a "time-out"
for being accused of "teasing" as a result of random talking to myself - which NO ONE else around me (not even other kids) noticed. Felt bad about that for the greater first half of my life.
In my earlier days of elementary school (prior to going into a private school), I always felt like an "outcast" as I had a ton of trouble with basic academics, including even Kindergarten math and writing. Writing and math (math is still not a "forte" of mine but I improved TREMENDOUSLY) were my top NEMESES back then. This would almost always cause the completely inept classroom "aides" to yell at and/or shame me in front of other classmates, which was VERY tough. In addition, they would even yell at me and make me look terrible at recess just because I wasn't trying to interact with anyone and simply wanted to be by myself.
The most hurtful thing, however, was when one particular classroom "aide" would sometimes mock my speech impediment, which I received therapy for until ~age 10. I recall the scenario (like it was yesterday!) when I would say "speech" incorrectly - I would say it "SUH-PEECH" (so in two "chunks"), and then she would
repeat that to MY FACE IN FRONT OF OTHER CLASSMATES!!!! I don't know why I never spoke up - maybe I was just too young and naive at the time that I somehow thought mistreatment and humiliation was "normal" for "outcasts" (which I thought I was but didn't even know that term back then) myself. Beyond this, the same "aide" would frequently threaten to deprive me of my lunch/food if I didn't start "doing my work," even though any perceived "laziness" was purely the result of the fact that I didn't understand the work being put in front of me. :'(
As of today, the largest impact of being on the "spectrum" is my resulting (clinical) anxiety (and now depression) and OCD, plus the uncomfortable nature of new social situations (especially when it involves "far-away" {from me, at least} relatives and/or people only known by my parents). In addition, I tend to take things more "literally" than other people, and also am slower than others in processing new and/or complex information. Interestingly enough, however, I tend to get along famously with most of the customers I encounter at work (as I work in a retail environment). Go figure.