What about e-bay? They are not as reliable source of such components, but it could be a good try, mainly when the projectors normally cost order of magnitude more...
http://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_from=R40|R40&_sacat=0&_nkw=DAD1000&_sop=15
I would really try to repair the projector, mainly when you have already identified the bad chip, I would guess the projector is of a higher value than just the lamp...
And even before that, I would really check, whether it is really the chip and not some soldering failure (whiskers are quite common fault with lead free electronic and they only come with age and temperature cycling), in that case there is high chance, the chip still had survived this)