Pushing on the inverter components with plastic object does not affect it, but if i touch (so close with high resistance) the controller chip then the inverter goes out completely
The prime cause was some broken connection. Either to the LED, or to the main board of the computer.
I know that the driver was powered with its output open for a while, would it damage it in this way ?
It depend, if the circuit have implemented an OCV limiter. If not, the driver chip, diode and/or or the output capacitor may get damaged. If the broken connection is intermittent, the capacitor may get charged and then discharged to the LED's, damaging these.
Maybe it was run momentarily with the output shorted, would it damage ?
If you look to boost converter basics, you would see, then the short n the output practically mean short of the input, without the controller ability to influence the current (even if you disconnect it completely, the curret would be there). In practical LED circuit that mean huge current flowing through at least the coil, diode and current sensing resistor. What is usually the most sensitive is the current sense resistor - normally is on it the voltage drop below 1V, but during the short circuit there is nearly the full input, what usually blow it out.
These usually fail open circuit, causing with nearly no real current the controller "think" there is already too much, so shutting down.
As in the normal high frequency cycle the booster deliver the energy after the switch turn OFF, it cause some minimum amount of the energy is transferred to the LED, once the converter is fired, so the flashing. When you touch that circuit, you most likely feed the feedback circuit from the input, so the controller "think" there is too much LED current, so keep shut down.
What to look for ?
First look, what chip is there, look into it's datasheet on how it work and identify all related components on the board.
Identify all inputs of the boost IC basic circuit from the rest and fake them in order to let it light at full power.
Then take a scope and look for waveforms.