First, I didn't measure the wire diameter right, it's indeed 1mm, so apparently it's fine.
I use the primary of an old audio system transformer. At first it gave almost no current. I removed progressively turns of wire. I'm almost done, I just need to remove a few more turns and the arc should start.
I just wonder, the air gap of the transformer is HUGE (almost 1 cm), does it matter?
Last thing, I live in the 120V 60Hz land