Long-life lamps are cr@ppy...sounds like you've never used high performance halogen bulbs. (Remember, USDOT and EU lighting requirements are different...that can make a big difference in subjective opinion.)
My headlights are good condition...I like to see where I'm going...not guess or feel where I'm going. But if you want to do that, well that's up to you.
I don't know what exactly you mean by "high performance bulbs", but I did try many things.
Including double power bulbs. Yes, everything was brighter, it appeared to throw the light further away on a road which was already illuminated (but there the car headlight was not needed at all beside "being visible" by others) but with really dark road still no extra visibility at all.
The best night visibility ever I've experienced with Skoda Felicia. Completely stock headlight. Not that bright when compared to other, more modern, cars, but you could really see what is going on in the distance. Practically all other passenger cars (all more modern designs) I've met, include about 6 when visitting the US, were definitely worse tgan the Felicia.
Agree, the US (mainly Olds 88 and Ford Windstar) were not that bad, but that could be the different legislation. I don't know if the Windstar is to be taken into account, because it was the only van, so with rather high seating and headlights (I skip all the heavy trucks and busses from this compare, just because the high seating makes big difference regardless of the lights used).
The criteria was quite simple: How far ahead from the car and how well I can see what is going on.
All had the same problem: The first ~50m in front of the car were illuminated so intensely, it drowned everything from 150..200m and further away in glare, with Felicia I was able to easily see nearly a km away, if the road was straight that far ahead.
With Golf V (the first modern car I bought as new after the Felicia, was very disappointed with the high beam performance; used H7, separate reflectors for each function) I did an experiment to disconnect the low beam and tye visibility reached about 300..400m, but missed curb illumination. And definitely illegal arrangement.
Tried a 100W high beam bulb there (illegal, because over the max lumen limit), everything a bit brighter but no real difference in the visibility distance from them. But had to switch it to low beam way sooner to prevent glare, so became stuck without high beam (so blind for longer than those 50m the low beam gives) for way longer stretches, so overall "average" visibility was worse. Tell me, how any "high performance" bulb may improve anything.
The only style lights I have no experience with are the adaptive high beam (laser, "pixel light",...), where in theory there you don't have to switch to low beam to prevent glare. But still if the design habit is to practically overilluminate the first 50m, I see no improvement in complete darkness.