did i do anything wrong by turning it off and back on?
This may have triggered the final collapse, but the ballast was most likely on it's way.
Normally the intermittent supply disconnection should have no adverse effects except the 15 minutes of dark time and a normal lamp wear of the extra switching cycle.
If the lamp would be the onlything to fail, there would be no smoke, nor fire, nor other fixtures dimming out, only a flash and then darkness only of that failed fixture.
The darkenning of the other lamps really mean there was a mains overlad fault, what could mean only failed ballast - the core and coil part (maybe as a result of previous capacitor failure).