Thanks for the help and comments!
I have never done this sort of think before, but the guy I bought some of the equipment from is a DJ and has a production/installation business. The controller is American DJ "Elation Professional". The lights I have are mostly Chauvet LEDs. I have six "PAR56", one "PAR64", two LED scanners and two American DJ REFLEX LED units. I also have four "PAR64" 250 watt stage lights, that will be controlled by DMX with a "Elation DMX20L" controller. I have been having parties in my shop for several years, but really wanted to go all out on this one! I am about to add a disco ball with LED "pinspots", but will just turn it on manually. I will post photos of the setup when complete. I am excited to play around with this setup and really look forward to friends dancing and hearing the live performances! Also not, I have a fog machine which REALLY makes the lighting look great and the dance area is surrounded with F40 BLB and F40/RED fixtures.