I did not expect this thread to blow up like it did. however I appreciate that it did. Lots of circuits and ideas to try. within the coming weeks I will likely have all the parts around to try at least one method. I would like to try them all tbh..
I am not super fond of the resistor idea anymore due to power waste/inefficiency
however I could build that too and see what happens I suppose. This is a separate project but eventually I want to also try and make a slow ramp up circuit for the halogens to prevent such a hard toll on the alternator when all that wattage comes on at once.
I am assuming I can make something utilizing a MOSFET, and a capacitor charging slowly via a resistor. I will have to mess around with that at some point. I don't want to mess with micro controllers if I don't have too mostly because coding is not my strong suite...I suppose better time than any to figure it out. But I do like the idea of simple "Dumb" circuits. It is what I grew up messing with and where my (limited) knowledge actually resides.
UPDATE:
The circuit for that specific function was actually pretty easy to find. Seems this one ramps up at 500 µs which seems quite fast for a halogen. So I probably will need to modify it/ look around more but the idea exists out there in the hobbyist space which is good.
https://www.instructables.com/Soft-Start-and-Soft-Finish-for-P-Channel-MOSFETs/